Frank,

Buried underneath your wife's skewed pride and her anger are presumably two things: a heart and a conscience.

In the end of it all - whenever that is - however old she may be - she will look back and see that she was never fully aware, nor was she ever quite willing, to pay the dear price that she will surely pay for what she is doing.

She would have to be devoid of both a heart AND a conscience to avoid paying the piper, Frank.

She'll pay.

And she won't have "enough".

This fire has to make something of her, Frank.
She's in it now and there's no way out but THROUGH it.

The fire will make her or break her.

And only she will be able to decide which it will be when that time comes.