Peace, Yes, I am concerned and am praying for God to keep him protected from her. It seems as if he still loves me otherwise he would not be interested in being intimate, I think. He's said the same thing about her marriage every time I have asked in the past (well before the S). ANd I know he definitely wasn't interested in her or anyone before and after the separation.
He told me he had a hard time yesterday when away with his parents because alot of the things/places they saw reminded him of the time we went there together. We had a really good time there so he's haunted by pleasant memories no matter where he goes.
I just find it hard wondering why he hasn't started working on his issues and when he would do so. I am praying that God leads him to something that will help him heal himself and eliminate his anger. It may even involve me saying something to him. I don't know - I will be still and let God guide me.
Yesterday, while we were intimate, I said, out of the blue, "We should do this evry night" and he laughed. He was in a good mood. Afterwards, he tends to be in a hurry to leave, almost as if he's afraid it'd hurt more if he stayed any longer or that he wouldn't be able to tear himself away.
