Hello Mr. MLC part tres'...

[mymonkeybug]

He did. Just not the way you expected. You could not see it. I am telling you.. You will. Now, down the road.. Whatever. You will. If you don't.. You have learned nothing.

OK FG help me understand this one???? I am in emotional break down mode and don't get it.

[Runswithscissors]

I think a therapist would be a good place to start over another man..... IMHO. It's called rebound for a reason. Most therapist will tell you that you need a min. of 2 years after a divorce to heal before you should even consider dating, let alone get into another relationship. Facts are you are still married and so is he... as I stated before.... in my state it's still a crime and the goose would be COOKED. Heck, in my state the kids could end up in foster care because both parents lacked morals. (trust me, it's happened). I just hope you aren't in the south!

I am surprised over the turn of events. A little over a month ago you wanted to work this out... now that you found out he lied to you- you don't... but yet.. you were totally honest with him either, until recently. I dunno. Just wish you luck.

[Runswithscissors]

Better hope he doesn't find a strong father's rights attorney in your area. Better hope he doesn't start video taping exchanges... better hope you don't have to have a GAL (Guardian Ad Litem) or you will be the one with the balls nailed to the wall.

Using children as a way to get back at another parent is in-excusable and I am speaking professsionaly at this juncture not as RWS. I am a GAL and I would immediately order a parent treatment plan for you and your husband AND parenting classes, along with anger management for you.

Get your act together. If you want to repair this marriage- do so but drop the other man and focus on healing and fixing you. Find a therapist that can teach you some cognative behavior skills. If you want to continue the drama and continue confusing the hell out of these kids.... you are going to find youself and your children in a total mess. If you think they don't know what's going on..... well, you are wrong. I am always amazed how much information I get when I interview children. Parents think children are naive.. when it's really the parents that are.

[Forrest Gump]

Oh... I was so hoping Runswithscissors had a solution for you. She is on a rampage tonight.

She just said she has NFC.

I could have sworn I wrote that down somewhere. I forget sometimes.

Anyway.. Now that I got that out.

"He did. Just not the way you expected. You could not see it. I am telling you.. You will. Now, down the road.. Whatever. You will. If you don't.. You have learned nothing."

Heather.. You have been in emotional break down since I first posted.

You have been flip-flopping all over the place. I thought you were a new poster and I greeted you with my best "How do you do".

I was confused by the information you had. That I am sorry for. I failed and got a F on who I thought you were.

Part of me tells me you are not ready to listen. You are getting there.. but you are fighting me. You want me to come to you.. But I am not going to.

I am gonna throw some smoke and mirrors your way and see what you do. You have that big IQ I am sure you can see thru it.

WHAT, do you want?

This is the last time I am asking. There will be no flip-flopping. What you say is what you want. In saying it, I will expect you to stick by it. I will "leave you hanging". Not to be mean, not to be cruel, just because I can't hang on anymore.

Answer the question. Are you in? .. Or are you out?

I am OK with either. You have to lead the way.

[Runswithscissors]

FG,

Question for you-

DO you have children? Have you ever been in a custody battle?
How many times have you sat in a court room and testified under oath on behalf of a child?

Telling me I have NFC means nothing. You want to be the "yoda" of the board, so what. You are called an internet bully. I am sure you help along the way and I can see that MMB appreciates your help. But you are not the only person here. This isn't your little cyber space.

But this man is now telling her to lie under oath, he is wanting to continue on the seperation and HE NOW wants to meet in a public place due to her anger. As a professional who works in and with Divorce Custody issues..... this one scares the hell out of me. There are multiple sites out there Just for Father's Rights and MMB NEEDS to know about them. She is on a path of destruction and with the right attorney in place and the right GAL in place.... she could find herself in one mean ole custody battle if "he" doesn't get his way with her lying under oath. Yes, he committed adultry, yes- she's committed adultry. But she now has adultry and step 1 of PAS. (do you even know what that stands for ole bright one?)

You can continue to give her advice and you can continue to insult me as you wish. But your insults are pathetic and pointless.

[Forrest Gump]

"DO you have children?"

Yes.

"Have you ever been in a custody battle?"

No.

"How many times have you sat in a court room and testified under oath on behalf of a child? "

Never.

"Telling me I have NFC means nothing. You want to be the "yoda" of the board, so what. You are called an internet bully. I am sure you help along the way and I can see that MMB appreciates your help. But you are not the only person here. This isn't your little cyber space."

Last time I checked.. It's not your's either.

"I am sure you help along the way and I can see that MMB appreciates your help."

I am glad you saw it.

"until recently. I dunno"

I did not say it you did.

"As a professional who works in and with Divorce Custody issues..... this one scares the hell out of me."

Me too... I am not as worked up about it as you. But I see it.

"She is on a path of destruction and with the right attorney in place and the right GAL in place.... she could find herself in one mean ole custody battle if "he" doesn't get his way with her lying under oath."

I think I already said that. Many times. Hence the advise I gave her.

"Yes, he committed adultry, yes- she's committed adultry. But she now has adultry and step 1 of PAS. (do you even know what that stands for ole bright one?)"

Actually I have already touched on that. Did you want me to go back and link it for you? I can do that.

"You can continue to give her advice and you can continue to insult me as you wish. But your insults are pathetic and pointless."

Last time I checked you were ignoring me. Guess I got that wrong.

Show me where I insulted you.

[inmyplace]

FG said:

Show me where I insulted you.

I would say right here, Forest.

Oh... I was so hoping Runswithscissors had a solution for you. She is on a rampage tonight.

She just said she has NFC.

IMP

[Runswithscissors]

"DO you have children?"

Yes.

"Have you ever been in a custody battle?"

No.

---------->just as I figured.

"How many times have you sat in a court room and testified under oath on behalf of a child? "

Never.

--------->had that one figured out too.

"Telling me I have NFC means nothing. You want to be the "yoda" of the board, so what. You are called an internet bully. I am sure you help along the way and I can see that MMB appreciates your help. But you are not the only person here. This isn't your little cyber space."

Last time I checked.. It's not your's either.

---------->but unlike YOU, I don't tell you to stay out of posts NOR do I insult you and tell you that you have NFC. Everyone here has an opinion and is entitled to it without having another person insult them. You purposely insulted me the first time I posted to MMB, furthermore you sought out MY posts and told me then I had NFC. You don't know if I do or do not. Just because my opinion does not match yours does NOT give you the right to tell me I have NFC.

"I am sure you help along the way and I can see that MMB appreciates your help."

I am glad you saw it.

---------->well, you know.... since I do a FC I can "see"

"Until recently. I dunno"

I did not say it you did.

---------->SO you are using that as NFC? Tells you how much you know women. That means, I don't agree with that she is doing and I dunno why she is continuing down the path of destruction.


"As a professional who works in and with Divorce Custody issues..... this one scares the hell out of me."

Me too... I am not as worked up about it as you. But I see it.

---------->people have different posting styles. I am not worked up, as you want to perceive. You can not tell the context in which I am writing. You have this Yoda BS writing style going on- I am blunt and to the point and don't play around. I don't speak in third person and I don't play games or toy with people when I am giving advice.


"She is on a path of destruction and with the right attorney in place and the right GAL in place.... she could find herself in one mean ole custody battle if "he" doesn't get his way with her lying under oath."

I think I already said that. Many times. Hence the advise I gave her.

------------>First of, it's advice, not "advise". SO, you want a cookie for saying it? You sound like a child on a playground. I said it first... >whatever<

"Yes, he committed adultery, yes- she's committed adultery. But she now has adultery and step 1 of PAS. (Do you even know what that stands for ole bright one?)"

Actually I have already touched on that. Did you want me to go back and link it for you? I can do that.

---------->So you know what PAS is? You must have just touched on it with the with-holding of children because that is HER first offense in PAS. I mostly skip over your post frankly.


"You can continue to give her advice and you can continue to insult me as you wish. But your insults are pathetic and pointless."

Last time I checked you were ignoring me. Guess I got that wrong.

Show me where I insulted you.

---------->You insulted me the first time I posted to her, you were told it was un-acceptable by a Moderator; you further insulted me by following me to MY Thread and again told me I had NFC and again tonight I have NFC... I take those as insults. When you tell a person they have NO F*CKING CLUE you are insulting them. PERIOD.

Every person here is a valuable resource and not ONE person is right or wrong. Just because you don't like my style and just because you don't like the fact I won't or don't back down from you- well get over it buddy. But, when you purposely bring me into a post, insult me to boot- well bring it on. I've dealt with people like you many, many times and you don't scare me and you will find I don't/won't back down.

We can keep this place peaceful if you would just stop insulting my advice or opinion. You can respectfully disagree- I just did that with another poster and said "I disagree and this is why"... but to tell an individual that they have NFC shows that YOU think you are an elitist. BTW, you aren't.