I happened upon your thread and feel like the biggest loser in the history of the world right now (because what I'm going through is nothing compared to what you've been experiencing). I've only read this current thread, but my mind is completely blown by your strength and courage. Your kids are so lucky to have a woman of your incredible fortitude as a role model. WOW.
I'm so sorry to learn of your recent financial troubles... maybe one of those angels will come to your rescue -- or maybe your H won't be such a putz?
I'll stay in touch if you don't mind.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence