"I am so tempted to abandon the no initiation but not going too , will let this play out for a while yet because she does know how to reel me in and I don't want to make it easy. She needs to be a little uncomfortable if shes keen and if not, then it is not going to make any difference."
It is so tempting to start moving in their direction when you begin to see signs of interest isn't it?
Very wise to sit back & let her come to you. I have a feeling you're going to be getting more hugs & kisses that way.
I think it does say something that she's lost some of the "shiny & new" in her home away from you. It may not live up to the fantasy she had in the beginning is probably a pretty good guess.
