wow, that is exciting news! I know it might be scary, but this will give you even more time to continue DBing-which we all know needs to continue for life.

on the ring. yes, be sure not to be down or disappointed if he doesn't put it on very soon. Putting that on is like he's rededicating himself to you. (oh, and good job covering for yourself too.. we all slip up now and again).

I remember telling my H that I didn't know if he would ever let me know that he wanted to be with me again, and I told him that he could just use the ring to let me know. He ended up telling me himself anyways, which was so not like him, and so cool. But it definitely wasn't anytime soon after my comment.

Your doing awesome! very happy for you

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."