When I asked my H if he would ever trust me again after he found out am my EA with OM....his answer was that he had to in order to live with me and for his own peace of mind. I thought that was a good answer. The forgiveness and trust is not b/c they have earned it or even deserve it, but b/c it is for your own sake that you've got to try to do it.
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The comment I made about tension was not because of the posts in here but was refering to my H. I have tried to explain this place to him but he just thinks that it is a place to pick up single men. I know that it is BS, but he thinks that way
Sounds to me like your H has a lot of trust issues of his own. The best thing is not to discuss this board with him. It is the same as trying to get him to read M books.....doesn't work.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
