Breathe, breathe, Jenny. You are still little miss optimistic. This is a minor glitch that will work itself out someway or another. It's a pain in the a$$ to have to deal with H and also to be worried about the money, but I have faith that you will figure it out somehow.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him