NoCode, Thanks for the well wishes on my thread. If there is anyone who deserves love and happiness, it's everyone on this board.
I found the question your D group posed pretty hard to answer myself! Sometimes I do think about the what ifs, but then think of everything I would have missed out on, the journey H and I have had together ...
In the end, I concur with Theoden, I would still marry my H, but I would do things differently.
