Midst of D, R even further on the downswing

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KerryK,
It is funy that in their minds leaving the marriage is going out and enjoying the freedom from what was left behind. In my case, as I am sure it is in yours, you divorced the woman. Not the chioldren you had together. One of my greatest joys is spending time with our S.

We will never truly understand what goes on in their heads. In all honesty, I do not want too. In the long run, we will be the people our children come to in a time of need and the one who they look back at as always being there for them. Our X's are so short sighted in all of this that they will never understand that and to us come the rewards...