I had this problem for a while - where H would barely let me hug him let alone touch him. Luckily he is "bilingual" with his love languages, so I worked on words of affirmation. Now that OW seems to be ex-OW and he is more receptive, I'm working on both love languages.

Sorry for the hijack. \:\)

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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