Hello Mr. MLC part tres'...

[mymonkeybug]

I am doing things now for me. I am listing the house for me. Our home has been a financial burden since we bought it but we always managed to stay afloat. Now it is imperative to sell it. His pay cut really hurt us. He is now looking for a part tie job to do at night to help out more financially.

I am angry that his parents are paying for him to go on an exotic out of the country trip with his girlfriend because HE needs the down time and stress release of a vacation....WTF?!?!?! Supposedly if I were to ever ask them for help they would help me with the bills and feeding their grandchildren. etc... Who knows!?!?

I just need to get my emotions in check or I am headed down a long and lonely path.

Thank you FG for your words of wisdom. I still love my H as much now as I ever have but I no longer trust him. I can only hope he keeps his word about providing for the kids that he has always told everyone he never wanted in the first place. He loves them and wouldn't change it now but still to this day will tell anyone that asks that he never wanted them to start with...that he was never ready to share his toys and his money and his life with kids.