Thank you both so much!!!!! Yes, I do need the support. I got a call from H sister-in-law this morning, she told me that he still blames me for everything, but that family does not do anything wrong in their eyes. She did say he made a comment on how smooth things went b/c of they way I handled things while they were here. She also was proud that I had the place looking good b/c he told them that I would not be able to keep it up, he expected the grass would need mowing & that it would look bad around here, but it looked great! He also told them that he thought I would loose the house & move back in with my parents. There is no way I will loose this house.
Yesterday his son came by to get a few things that his Dad had given him, he asked me what my plans were if I was going to keep the house or sell it. I told him I planned on staying here. So, I know he was fishing for info for his Dad.
From what my SIL said & what H said I'm not sure he is all that happy with his new job. She said they didn't train him & just through him out there, so he doesn't do well in those sitch, b/c he has been there before. She said they are renting a house instead of buying one. The OW called him a few times while he was here. My SIL said she did run after him & he went right along with what she wanted. So, he is in for a rude awakening, I have a feeling it will be sooner than later or at least I hope it will be.
I did hate to cry in front of him, but I just couldn't help it. It was very hard, I'm not sure how I made it as long as I did & was upbeat the whole day until he started to leave, I guess only by the grace of God, I'm sure.
Again thank you for all your support, I am having some hard times right now but I will keep posting b/c I need all of you right now!!! I love all my new friends on this site!!!
