I think we have his spinning cycles downpat so I know what to expect and when.
He escapes most on weekends with his self-medicating (alcohol) but I have to say, the texts which are so very few to OW are nothing to me. I have to say that before he moved out almost two years ago and prior to the time we found out about the A, the calls or texting was so frequent and this is nothing but a blip in the process as far as I am concerned.
Also, the baiting when he is drinking--I am glad I knew how to handle it because I just got up and went inside. It stopped thankfully.
Like I said, I think today is okay. Made him breakfast and lunch and I will see him when he gets home from work.
God really is in control so I will be still and let it be.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
