What 180s can you do to make you a better person, completely taking H out of the equation? I've gotten in shape, am treating myself better. I'm trying to stop being the procrastinator, tried to stop being so judgmental of other people, picked up a new hobby of crossword puzzles. Tried to go back to cooking lots of homemade stuff. I'm making a point of researching things to do with the kids outside of our normal routines.
Think of 180s for yourself. Take a class. When do you get out just for you to get out? What are you doing for YOURSELF?
IMO, the successful 180s are ones that make you a better person. The 180s that you do just for them, or just to change your pattern with them are transparent because we don't really mean them.
GAL, too. Are you doing that?
Last edited by cw68; 04/14/0806:26 PM.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09