Maybe DS16 contacting OM is a good thing....I don't know. Personally, I don't want my kids to ever have any contact with the OM in my sitch. But then again, my kids are younger. 16 is an age where he can probably handle it, and it might actually help him.
But maybe the lesson here to DS16 is that he doesn't need to get in the gutter with OM by telling him off. Maybe being the bigger person and taking the high road is a better lesson? This is a tough one. He is old enough, that is for sure, so maybe the lesson is to stand up for what is right. I am torn on this one.
Realistically, OM is going to just hang up on him. OM will probably tell your WW what happened and they will be in contact again. Yet another example of how "the world is against them" and their soulmatery. I made that word up. I like it
Anyway, I am with you whatever you decide.
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Thing is, the only way he could get OM's number is if I gave it to him. Might have to think about that one.
Give me the number, and I will give it to him. Plausible deniability
