Please help...need MLC advice

[tpaschal]

In the msg. yesterday asking about doing something with the kids, he also asked if he could "borrow" the fridge that's in the garage. I never answered it.

H sent a new one a little bit ago asking if I had gotten his msg., and could he come pick up the fridge today.

What to say?

My MIL says "let him have it, it costs too much elec. and you can't afford it anyway," or to tell him I planned to sell it in the garage sale and if he wants to give me $50 he can have it. Don't think I can do that, since it is his as much as mine.

Friend said to tell him I wasn't comfortable with splitting up any more of the assets before the D is final. I like that, it doesn't make me look like a doormat, but does it make me look like a petty beyotch?