Mine is definitely physical touch. When we met I think physical touch was one of his with WOA, but I don't know if physical touch means as much anymore.
I, too, have been trying to compliment him more. He once said that he felt that I took him for granted. Guess I told my friends good things about him more than I told him.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09