Too late for that Pup. Does my hating her mean I don't have a soft spot for her that may turn back into love if she is serious about NC and begins to come around? No. Maybe I've done the detaching to the extreme. You just get to a point where you've been hurt so much that you shield yourself off from anymore pain.

And I think I could love her again, but not who she is right now. Maybe that's the difference. I love my wife, but hate my wayward wife. If I don't see my real wife, it's easy to hate the wayward one.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.