Think about what you want, have you been walked on? She got involved with another man, some need is not being meet. You are not the fixer you can't fix her! She has to want, then commit to fixing herself. Fixers are the nice people that get trampled on most of the time.
She is telling you and others she wants to be with some one else.
Call her up tell her your leaving her stuff on the front porch for her to pick up! You enjoyed your relationship together, and wish her well in the next one. YOu will be sad, you will hurt, it may seem like a bad idea, but she will respect you down the road.
The message you send is you can not walk on me forever, be with me or don't it is your choice, but I will not play games with you.
Best of luck to you!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
