Hi peace- I think MLCers sometimes project what they think about themselves on us or they can just grasp on to anything they can find, justifiable or not, to have reason to show their anger. Sounds like you handled everything well.
Did your H start to get angry after you told him how much your D appreciated the talk that they have the other night? It makes you sense that if you are being nice and encouraging, it makes him makes him feel guilty...thus angry.
Interesting coincidence about the message at the new church...hopefully it will be something you can put to use some day soon.
