Wow. This is a lot to take in. Thank you so much for taking so much time to read and think through everything and respond so thoroughly. You have some great points for me to think about. I will print this out to read and digest slowly. I hope I'll have a chance later today to respond to some of what you said.

Thanks again.

Me:40, xH:41
M:19 T:21
D14, S10, D6
IDLYA bomb:12/22/06
OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06
H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07
D papers served 6/07
D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(