My story

[hopeful4her]

I know that I have been back and forth on the moving out part. I go along telling myself that I'm not going anywhere and then, bam, something happens that gets me thinking of moving out. Good counsel from friends and here on the site, now has be thinking that I ain't going nowhere. If she wants out, then she can go. I have made the point that if she does leave, it will be without the kids. Not negotiable, anymore. I know emotions play a big part in it all. I never realized how emotional that I could really be after all this began. Truly amazing.