I go back and forth on how to approach the car. I have thought about just calling him and saying..."I just wanted to give you address for the car payment because I wasn't sure you still had it since you changed banks." He used to pay it through bill pay online, but he changed banks and so the address isn't on file anymore. Assuming he paid it...now that's an idea.
I just feel like I am at that point where we either need to both put forth the effort to work on this or we need to get a D. I am tired of being in limbo land. I really feel like I need to have that conversation with him. I just need to be prepared for the possibility that he may say he would rather get a D and then be able to follow through with it.
