I agree with Stella. Don't beat yourself up over the crying and you did great!
You have been through so much in such a short period of time. Crying was just a little backslide but very natural under the circumstances - I would have done the exact same thing. Your H has to be feeling some pain. You can't just throw away 15 years of a good marriage (as you've stated) and not feel any pain. I'm sure once it sinks in he'll begin to realize what he's done.
I'm sure your friend is right - he most likely will be calling you once it starts to fizzle out with OW. However, for your own sanity, you have to move on with your life right now without H. You can't allow yourself to just hold on to the hope that your H may call.
Keep posting - you really need the support right now.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz