Thanks Joie! \:\) I forgot to mention that my H has started wearing a cross with the Serenity prayer; I am hoping that means something positive. He has been spending a lot of time with D8 while I am at the play, etc.

The other day when I was stressed out when D8 was sick and H didn't email me for hours, H said he thinks the play is contributing or causing a lot of my stress (yes, it is stressful!) He said it was like that for him too, very stressful in Nov. and December when he did a play. He said it (the stress from the play) made everything seem worse, which I am thinking maybe he was talking about our marriage and/or me because Dec. is when he asked for a divorce and began his PA (although I think they were having an EA before that). I wonder if that means that now he is thinking our marriage and/or me aren't as bad as he was thinking? Or maybe I am just wishful thinking again! \:\) Karen

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