Wow wow wow! I would say you guys are back together! Didn't your H say the ILYBINILWY? When did the ILY come back? I am really happy for you and of course trying to use your situation to give me hope.
My H is clearly extremely angry at me, though he denies it. I think he felt so rejected by me sexually--and he has a right to because I was pretty LD for a few years (though we had sex regularly anyway). I just have always had such faith in the essence of who were were/are as a couple that I was sure that would prevail.
Yesterday he and I were gardening too--something I have never really done. He was showing me how to uproot something and replant it and we were joking around. I often feel that spark between us when he lets his guard down, but then he pulls back.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08
