There and Back, up and walking #1

[cat03]

Sally, just finalizing SA with a mediator, just wanted to ask you if you've talked to a L before going to mediation. I dont' mean retain one, just go and lay out to the L where you stand and what you are asking for, you'd be surprised of the stuff you are overlooking. At the requests of many people in this board I had a consultation with a very awesome L who gave me so much great info and helped make the greatest desicion regarding the house.

You will need a L to look at your SA before you sign it anyways, so you might as well go see one now, I highly recommend it. I did get some books, one was "The divorce mediation handbook : everything you need to know " by Paula James, it was very good.

I also been married 10yrs and together 13yrs with this past March.