I had a birthday card from my wife one month or so before her affair started that said "I love you very, very much". I asked her the same thing you did, "so were you lying when you said that in the card" and I got nothing more than a blank stare.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
