Hey, Sally. I hope that a mediator surfaces for you. Even with my collab process, there are 2 Ls involved, each looking out for their client's interest. Not as adversarial as the standard mess, but there are secrets and manuevering on both sides. And it will take a lot of research on your part, if you are the one with access to the financials. I did 95% of the work on the D I didn't want.
My L recommended "Taking the War out of Words" by Ellison, and "The CoParenting Survival Guide."
We went to VA Beach a few years back around this time of year--it was great! Just before high season, and the bike riding on the boardwalk/kite flying/beach were great. Hope you have a great time!
