Oh heck, H4H. Don't pay any attention to that. My WW told me that she "was a broken, unhappy, bitter" woman until the affair started and that showed her how unhappy she was. Funny how NO ONE that knows her saw her misery. Cause it just wasn't there. It's a defense mechanism to justify the affair. You're spot on, it's fog babble. Don't pay attention to it.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.