[quote=jon2911]It is interesting about her song choices. Hopefully it means she is sorting through the emotional baggage she has. It will be a long process, but she'll be better for it. And it might help her migraines - while I'm sure there's medical reasons for them, the stress she has is probably a very big cause of them - spiritual/emotional issues that get buried don't actually go away, they manifest as other things like illnesses.
Bingo! I think you're spot on. The frustrating thing is that I can't help her work through this. She'll have to do it on her own. Several times during the marriage she mentioned needing counseling over her parent's divorce and a lot of stuff she's never worked through. I can only pray that as she works through this she'll want to come back, but if not I'll be fine. Had one of the best weekends ever.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK