Well, I went to meet up with the in-laws on Saturday. We actually had a great time and it was good to see them. They really didn't bring anything up or ask any questions about me and H so that was good. Although I did get the impression that they think we are living together. There were just some things they said that really made me think that. I am wondering what H has told them because when we are around them it always seems that he goes out of his way to give the impression that things are fine between us.
He sent me a text last night that said "How was the game?". I sent him one back telling him that we had a really good time and I asked if he was working. He responded and told me he was having to close last night. I didn't respond again so that was it.
The car payment is due this week. I am already stressed out about it. He got paid on Friday but my guess is that he has probably already spent most of that money and he won't be able to pay for the car. I hope he proves me wrong. The usual for me would be to call him today and remind him about it. I will do a 180 and not call him or nag him about it. I will give him a chance to do it on his own. We'll see.
I am really wondering why he even moved here. He doesn't have family here, I am the only person he knows here. He is still talking to OW...so why did he leave her and come here?? Did he do it because he knew I would take care of him and he knew OW wasn't capable (financially or otherwise) to take care of him. I thought he moved here to work on our M....but it doesn't seem we are doing that.
