NA But the bottom line was he was showing some kind of sign to work on M right
peace- It's hard to explain, but with the first few attempts at C, I could just tell he wasn't into it at all. At our first visit with our current C, she asked us to rate on a scale of 1-10 how hard we were willing to work to save the marriage and he couldn't say, he just said it was "a low number."
BIG UPDATE: H told me on Friday that he was working on transitioning out of his condo to move back home, if it was OK with me. He gave notice to his landlord and is trying to get rid of some of the stuff he bought when he moved in. I told him that I wanted him to be sure that he is doing this because he wants to, not because he feels he needs to (money reasons). He said it was both needing to and wanting to. He told the older kids yesterday.
I'm a little shocked, worried, happy, relieved. I just want to be sure that we are moving forward and don't end up back in the place where we were last year when things went south.
He gave notice to his landlord and is trying to get rid of some of the stuff he bought when he moved in. I told him that I wanted him to be sure that he is doing this because he wants to, not because he feels he needs to (money reasons). He said it was both needing to and wanting to. He told the older kids yesterday.
