Keep it up DMB. You're where I'm at right now. Maybe a little ahead. My WW insists she's told OM NC, but won't do the NC letter. But it's only been a week since I exposed to the kids and right now she's so angry at me for that she won't do anything that I ask, so I'm not going to push for the moment. But I told her Friday night that I would file immediately for divorce if there is ANY contact of any kind.
I think you're handling this well. NC will be hard for the wayward. Just don't back down (yeah, easy for me to say).
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.