I agree with DMB. Don't bother calling the loser. If you want to apply pressure, there's other ways.

Is OM married? Have kids?

I agree, why did you move out?

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.