Im here to cheer you up!! My h is the same way about remembering things.. and yes down to remembering when he shot his deer
Your feelings are exactly what mine are like, that were are insugnifigant (sp?) creatures unless they needs something from us. I just don't want to be sitting here 20 years later complaining of the same things.
Can you talk to him about not feeling connected? or will he back off more??
My h did good for my bday, but then slacked off yesterday. I asked him 3 x's to come upstairs with me just to watch a movie and he stayed down stairs and played a game on the computer.. I was pi$$ed.. and told him so this morning.
Duh.. they have to be hit with a 2 x 4 sometimes. That's why maybe I think you need to just come right out and tell him.
Looks like the trip for him to Utah is being moved to the middle of may, I'll keep you posted.
Thinking of you... do something you love to do today...
Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
