Ok Pup, I'll be waiting. I hate it when work gets in the way of the boards.

But I question not telling WW about OMW asking me to testify. I see it as MORE pressure on the affair and by extension it will get WW thinking that SHE may be called. I'm definitely NOT going to say to WW that I'll never talk to OMW again, but she already knows we talk (so I would not be giving up any intel if NC remains in place) and I don't want to give her ANY excuse for ending NC with OM. I mean, she could pull the "you're talking to her, why can't I talk to him". Heck, if they weren't talking, they might be now because OM checks their cell bill almost daily (according to OMW) and he's probably seen that we talked Friday night so he's probably sent WW an email already saying so.

I just think it would be a way to difuse the situation and enforce to her that there's NO reason for them to be talking.

I just sent OMW an email saying I'd rather not testify, but if she supoena's me, I have no choice, but if she wants to call WW to testify, I'd join in the fun in a minute. How perfect would that be? WW having to sit there in court, looking OMW and her kids in the eye and tell them about the affair! Maybe then she'd wake up as to how her actions affected people.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.