1. Why did you move out? It is YOUR house too, right? 2. Why do you think your W will want to be with ONLY you when she is getting the best of both worlds right now? She is getting her OM, and she is getting you to rub her feet. 3. Does your wife work? How is she getting the money to pay for the house you moved out of? 4. Why are you letting her take YOUR kids around OM? 5. Is the OM married?
Don't confront the other man. It is tempting, but will get you no where. there are other ways to apply pressure, if you are interested.
