It seems my W is having a hard time letting the thought of no-contact-with-OM into her head and heart. While on vacation this past week, I snooped and discovered she had not thrown away her secret affair cell phone like she said. She had brought it on our family vacation, and had it hidden in her bag. UGH.
So, I confronted her on it. Told her this is her one and only strike she will get. From here on out, one more lie, foul up, contact, etc. means we are heading the legal route. Who knows if she really *gets* that.
After the 'discussion' about the phone, I asked her to leave the vacation, and she did. it broke my little D7's heart. She didn't understand. Of course we didn't tell her WHY her mommy had to leave. Maybe, just maybe it was a wakeup call for WW. Seeing her little girl crying was just the tip of the emotional iceberg she is going to encounter if we get a D. Unfortunately, I am not hopeful that someone as selfish as my WW will be woken up from that, or anything at all.
She swears she has had not contact. She was just couldn't bear to get rid of the phone. From my sources of info, I *think* I believe her about the no contact thing, but, there is doubt......
We have our first MC session this week. I have no idea what to expect. I know NOT to expect miracles, or something to happen overnight.
