More later, as I'm buried today, but I wanted to comment on this:
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One last thing, OMW has asked me if I'll testify at her divorce trial. I'm thinking I'm going to tell her I'd rather not, but if she supeona's me I don't have an option. I'm also going to tell her that we should probably quit talking unless its because either of us has evidence that WW and OM are still talking/getting together. That way OM and WW have no reason to be talking if she's serious about trying us. And I'm going to tell WW that very thing tonight. Tell her that OMW contacted me about testifying, that I told her I'd rather not and that I told her that we shouldn't be talking to each other anymore so my marriage can have the best chance to make it, but if I feel/know that she and OM are still talking I'll agree to testify and make OM's and WW's lives as miserable as I can. Of course, I won't say it that way, but she'll get the picture.
Comments please.....
I agree with the first part -- try to avoid it, but if you're subpoena'd, no, you don't have a choice. But don't reveal any intel to an adulterer. If your wife asks you direct questions, DO NOT LIE TO HER -- ever. But DON'T go offering up things like the second half of the above. You won't "get credit" for it anyway, and all you will have done is revealed some valuable intel and shown weakness.
