What was her response to the dream? I don't know that I would have shared, but that's b/c my H has forgotten (seemingly) how we used to dream.
I think it says alot about you that even in your dreams you stop yourself. Dreams are IMO shadows of something real. Keep in mind that they are only echos though. It's a different way of knowing.
I don't know that she won't change. I think she's just hollow right now.
