Uhm, I think I have told him NO, quite a bit. You all dont realize just how much I have walked away from him....but for my sake, I will remain friends with him. I will not have the open relationship that he is thinking. I think I proved my point to him this weekend by telling him NO.
I hardly spoke to him yesterday. He came to our son's ball practice and then left because he wasnt feeling good. I think his problem now is that the OW that he loves, has chosen to be with someone else....heartbreak hurts and now he is getting a taste of it.
I am leaving him alone, but I am his friend. Not only that but I have to coparent with him so it is easier to be a friend. Now, I dont just call him to call, usually it is only about the kids or finances.
I have come to realize that I am really not "in love" with this guy anymore, but I know that if I want it to be there, it can happen.
Please dont think that I am letting him be the center of attention. I pretty much ignored him the few min he was at practice yesterday. I walked up and said hey and then sat on the bleachers and started a conversation with another mom. He stood behind the bleachers and said a few things to me, but I answered and then went back to my convo with the other moms. I think when he left he was looking for attention, and I wasnt giving it to him.
Come on guys, yes he is an idiot, but I married him. He just wasnt this big of an idiot back then!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
