well it's been 367 days for me now... How much longer do you think I should hold out?? You have been at this for a while..
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Husband, So you passed the one year 'anniversary' since you found the pics, but the A has been over for quite a while. Put that date in the past and forget about it. I think you need to get to the next stage before you think about throwing in the towel on this one. You W seems to be content with the way things are. Does she want to take things to the next level? Does she want to get back to being a married couple? I really think you need to figure out if you both want the same outcome and start working towards whatever that is. You've been sort of drifting along for a while now, not wanting to rock the boat, but I can see that you are not happy with the way things are now. I can't imagine that she is content with the situation either.
