Thank you all again for your support and advice.

H and I are getting along quite well and I really sort of feel like his other woman. He is now kissing me with a friendly peck on the lips, still hugging me quite intensely, and now saying, "I love you " again but in a friendly way not that passionate romantic way...not yet anyway.

I know what his body movements mean and his facial expressions and how he operates and I am seeing the old Danny peaking out again at me.

My question is though...what if he does in time want back? I mean how do I really move past the idea that he cheated for 5 months and lied the entire time about it? And all the little lies he has been telling since to hide the truth and keep me from hurting and himself from looking bad? I think I will always feel like I have to look over my shoulder and worry if he will do it again. That is my dilemna.

Thanks again for your wisdom especially with this one.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

Current