Jen, I hope you get your internet connection back today!
I see many positives in your current sitch, esp Your H telling that he enjoys been around you now. I would suggest that next time when H takes D to the beach or some place else you don't ask if you can come too, let him ask you if you want to join them (and if he does, you say "no"! at least once). It's just my gut feeling... Give it a thought and see if feels like the right thing to do.
It's great that he noticed the nagging ceased!
Come back soon, Jen, we miss you here, ((hugs)).
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
