question, esp. for people who have been at this longer. Should I just "give up". not in terms of not db'ing and GAL (for myself),but should I just let him go, you know, in my heart? He really seems to love the ow (as far as I can tell, I don't know any details about her and don't want to know), but I DO know it hasn't been that long. I believe it started around feb.

After the roller coaster of the past week and this weekend, I am wondering if I should just let him go and move on with my life. This isn't what I want and I love him, but I also love myself.

Advise or thoughts would be great.