Previously in our M I became distant, moody, miserable etc because of the lack of extra money. I work hard and make reasonable money, but it just about covers all of our bills but with no extra cash left for spending on us. What I am seeing now is although W had said things like, "We've got no money but we're doing ok" or "Lan, I didn't marry you for your money" having that extra money and having a good time is very important to W. Another of her classic quotes which backs this up was, "Just because we have a mortgage and bills to pay doesn't mean we stop living".
Don't get me wrong, I didn't overspend this weekend, even though W was dropping heavy hints about dresses and oufits, but now as she starts to book up our social calendar, I can see the $$$$ going out the window. So when I commented before on your thread about being tight a**ed with money and being a miserable f**ker, I was talking from experience, that was me too. but splashing some cash seems to be having a positive effect for me.
It's all a balancing act now with the finances, as well as keeping a roof over our heads I have to make sure we have enough so we all can have a good time.
FG
Originally Posted By: Forrest Gump
If you want "freaky girl" you are going to have to work for it.
Yes, it required a Forty five minute foot massage (boy were my fingers tired), this time the girl was hot but not so freaky.
