Had a chat about her job last night. At about 2am. She couldnt sleep, and I got up to see if she was ok. We chatted as she was worried about her job and her boss. I screwed up a little, as she thought I didnt understand her and wasnt giving her sympathy, and my excuses for being so made her in a worse mood.
I am reaching too high I think, as even if we were happily married we woud still have fights and disagreements. So I think this should be ok. Especailly as I ended the night in bed with her.
Bit worried about her though. She is very tired now, so I need to be careful tonight.
The problem was I intimated that her job is taking over her life (not how I really feel... most of the time).
I also dont know how or when or if I should ever tell her that she cant continue to work in that job and be married to me. Of course as OM is there.

To throw more complications in this mix, the other other guy. The one that is just her friend, but he is being inappropriate. He is now emailing her (I was talking with her while she checked). AND his W left him before Christmas! Now I really trust my W when she says that she is just his friend, and he needs someone to talk to. But I dont trust him.

Need to just go with the flow with these 2 points for now and see how it pans out.

Still, I am fine.

Cheers

Steve

Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.