W and me have undergone significant internal changes since separating. We are different people in our value systems and how we view the world. However, in our daily interactions, and how we appear to the outside world, we are 99% exactly the same.
This is something I can relate too, As W and me are often in each others company for whatever reasons the most common question I get is " are you two back together ?? ".
Even right at the begining we did discuss doing this separation "our way" and have probably both failed to conform with what the outside world would expect of a separated couple. We have at least talked about this with each other.
I think it comes down to the fact that we are separated for some very good reasons , however despite that we care enough about each other not to destroy whats left.
I think you are in a good place mm and with some patience the outlook is reasonable .
